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Hi, my name is Magda Kay.

I am an Intimacy Expert, Tantra Teacher & Conscious Relationships Coach.

You may wonder who I am and what brought me to this work. So here is a little bit about me..

My own journey of healing has brought me to discover Yoga, Tantra, Theta healing, energy work and reprogramming of subconscious programs. I finally started releasing layers of social conditioning around what it means to be a woman, and how to relate to others, allowing my true, wild and passionate self to come out.

I believe in enjoying the world - in a  healthy way. With my work, and my own life, I promote the path of self-love, self-acceptance and deeper, intimate connections with yourself, with life and with others.

I feel truly blessed to work with men and women from around the world helping them to shed the old, heavy layers, so that their wild, playful and happy true inner selves can come out. The transformation I witness in my clients is my secret recipe for happiness :)

My Story

1985

Born in Poland, a post-communist country, I have access to things most people can only dream of. With my family we go skiing twice a year, we travel abroad and we live in a huge apartment. I take private English & Italian classes, I play tennis and dance. Already as a child I love performing and I am often on TV and big stages.

2002

My father goes bankrupt. We lose our house and my parents move to the countryside, leaving me and my brother behind. At 17 I am on my own, living by myself and having to make my own living

2010

I move to Milan, Italy. My life is pretty good, I work in fashion and have a vivid social life. But one day I receive a diagnosis: they found pathological changes in tissue during my PAP test. At 25, I learn I may have cancer. Everything changes. At work, I am told they will fire me if I have to go back to Poland for the treatment.

2013

I move to Malaysia. I have my first relationship at 27. For the first time, I’m in love. But things don’t last long. I’m not having orgasms and it’s taking a toll on our relationship, until we grow apart and break up. I fall into depression and have suicidal thoughts. I attempt to hurt myself.  I discover ThetaHealing and manage to heal my depression. I choose to study and become a practitioner. My journey as a healer begins.

2014

I commit to healing and becoming orgasmic. I learn about Tantra. I travel to India to study in a Tantric ashram and become certified as a Tantra Yoga Teacher. I work with shamans and gurus in Bali, India, Nepal and Malaysia. I learn about multiple forms of healing and energy work.

2015

I move to a “Tantra island”  in Thailand. I dive deep into Tantra and sexual practices. I explore open relationships. I take parts in rituals and sex parties. I have my first full body and energy orgasm. I release my sexual trauma. And I start teaching Tantra and sacred sexuality.

2016

My Tantric school closes down due to allegations of rape and abuse. I realize I was living in a sex cult. Though I learnt Tantra and received healing, I’m understanding how toxic and patriarchal this community is. I am healing from dogma, re-learning what it means to be a woman and what femininity really is.

2018

What I think is the love of my life, turns into a toxic relationship. At first I think I met my soulmate. We travel around the world and we’re planning kids. But my nervous system is non stop in a fight-or-flight mode. He starts dating a 21-year-old woman (14 years younger than me) and asks me to open the relationship. This is when I finally have the strength to leave. I need a lot of time to heal from it. I lose 10kg. I struggle to trust men again. I am also at my lowest with money; I have just $1,000 in my bank account.

2020-2021

After doing deep work on myself, I recover emotionally and financially. I make more money than ever before. I reconnect to my dreams and start investing in my future. I move to Bali. I start doing crossfit and riding bikes. I make my first investments. I finally re-integrate the healthy masculine back into my life. I feel stronger than ever and finally feel my drive is back.

2022

The School of Intimacy – an online academy with courses on every aspect of love, relationships & sex life is launched

2023

I launch my first book: No More Faking It. I speak at big events around the world. I am still 100% committed to my vision and I feel unstoppable. I feel happier, more balanced and supported than ever before. I finally stop waiting for a relationhip to make me happy and I prioritize myself. I learn to create my own happiness and pleasure regardless of my relationship status. I feel secure and grounded. My relationship with myself is stronger than ever.

Trainings & certifications

Hatha yoga
Tantra Yoga
Advanced Theta Healing
Crystal Healing
Taoism
Tibetan Singing Bowls Therapy
Ayurveda
Social psychology
Intuitive reading

a few fun facts about me

I am obsessively in love with sharks. Until today seeing great whites remains my #1 life experience.

I am a diver (no brainer... what other way to see all those sharkies!). I love being under water, it's one of those places where I feel perfectly calm and dissolved into life.

I have 3 tattoos. They are all small and subtle. And I'm so tempted to get another one...

Curious about my accent? I'm Polish and my accent has some Italian in it too. I used to live in Milan and am fluent in it.

Though I am subtle and often shy, there is a lot of fire in me. And that fire loves snowboarding, motorcycles and things like indoor skydiving or go-carts. I love adventure and I try to keep an active lifestyle.

I have that thing... if I ever drink champagne, I always drop a few berries into my glass.

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